you cannot love the unseen God and yet claim to hate your fellow man whom you see everyday. 

love is the very essence of God's character. love is patient, kind and doesn't envy .Be kind to your fellow man cos you never know.

LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX.

 I was opportune to listen to a wise man in the person of Amos Kevin Annan during a youth week event in church and I am going to share what I can remember with you.

SEX is it really a big deal? I know lately it’s all over and not many people are ignorant of how to have sex (thanks to the internet). The problem with knowledge is not that you know but how you use it. So how much do you know about sex and what exactly are you doing with that knowledge?

 So let’s talk about sex. All I know about sex is what I have seen in movies and read in books also what others have said.  Here is what I know from Mr. Annan

1.       Sex is not love.

Don’t go looking for sex and think it is love. Don’t give yourself to sex looking for love. Most men come riding on love but what they really want, SEX. I learnt this first hand. (I was almost a victim). I wish knew this earlier tho.  No hard feelings too

2.       Sexual compatibility shouldn’t be a reason for premarital sex.

No man’s genitals are as huge as a baby’s head(that would have to be scary!!).   The vagina has been wired to stretch to accommodate a baby how much more a penis.

3.       The only experience you will need for your husband is the one he will give you.

Everyone has a particular way they would like to have sex and you and your husband will eventually work your sexual differences out. It only gets harder when you already have mind-blowing sexual experiences you can’t get over. Then the comparison starts and if it isn’t handled carefully you may cheat.

4.       We plan to marry.

If the ring isn’t on that finger, if the hasn’t been a wedding and especially if your parents are not aware just DON’T.  Patience is a virtue. if you are really going to spend your lives together, grow old together WHY THE RUSH?  After you marry sex will obviously happen and it can happen with no headache about getting caught or pregnancy.

5.       Sex is good.

God created sex. I am sure when done right it will be enjoyable. I hope to enjoy it someday.

               

These I think its hammered in my head ABSTINENCE is best.

So while I wait, I am learning how to cook, clean and be homely. A good marriage is beyond good sex.(I hope my husband agrees with me )

               

               

               

HIS IMAGE

One by one He made them
according to His likeness
they were formed
but as they conformed
they looked nothing like Him
the purity which shines in beauty
evident as they cry Holy
standing in awe of His glory

who dare stand before Him
only whom He allows
coming through the Son
His glory is all around Him
He is a king on His own
due reverence everyone must show Him
to Him belongs the throne

A LETTER TO JESUS

 I don't really  know you
i heard you paid my debt

so i am guessing that i still owe you
that aside
i realise you have no pride
i still don't get why  you came to die
a friend said it's love
it was sent from above
you came to blot out my sin
to cleanse me from within
redeem me from Satan's grip
i really won't take any blame
i live in a weak frame
i am not smart
i am not rich
you tho
you know everything
your father i heard is filthy rich
but i would like to know this
how can i appreciate you
a friend showed me your letter
i am glad  you care
 even though it took me a while to realize you are always there