Ingratitude is the most difficult thing to forgive.
You are Killing yourself but those you sacrifice for do not recognize your efforts . You wish you could just stop being good to them, you are a Christian whose life should be based on the words of Jesus . The greatest commandment is to the the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF .
the first part is easier to deal with cos we all agree God is perfect and always knows what HE is doing.
How about that sister or brother who calls you up only when they need something , or they abuse your kindness but are never go out of their way to help you. To them they come first . To keep constantly obeying these words are not easy,
1. Not everyone will see your effort but that's fine as long your motives are pure (give without expecting from man ) and you do it in obedience God its OK 👍
2. in all that you do, do as unto God. Jesus said ..whatever you do to the least of these you do to me. Make honorable decisions and sacrifices you know God will be glorified by.
3. Don't know count of what you do for people . Do what you can and will for them but do not do it in order to recount in some time to come
4. Lower your expectations . Do not expect people to repay you. Close your mind to earthly returns from people keep your mind on what God can give and do for you. Remember the blessing of obedience . Don't complain about how people treat you when they have more than you but differently when they have less .
You are Killing yourself but those you sacrifice for do not recognize your efforts . You wish you could just stop being good to them, you are a Christian whose life should be based on the words of Jesus . The greatest commandment is to the the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF .
the first part is easier to deal with cos we all agree God is perfect and always knows what HE is doing.
How about that sister or brother who calls you up only when they need something , or they abuse your kindness but are never go out of their way to help you. To them they come first . To keep constantly obeying these words are not easy,
1. Not everyone will see your effort but that's fine as long your motives are pure (give without expecting from man ) and you do it in obedience God its OK 👍
2. in all that you do, do as unto God. Jesus said ..whatever you do to the least of these you do to me. Make honorable decisions and sacrifices you know God will be glorified by.
3. Don't know count of what you do for people . Do what you can and will for them but do not do it in order to recount in some time to come
4. Lower your expectations . Do not expect people to repay you. Close your mind to earthly returns from people keep your mind on what God can give and do for you. Remember the blessing of obedience . Don't complain about how people treat you when they have more than you but differently when they have less .